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Unintended Consequences
Thursday, October 31, 2019As I continue to make my way down my ever-growing list of sermon requests, the next is for a sermon on authority, especially about the way that the church is authorized by the New Testament to use its money. In summary, what we see in the Scriptures is that the first-century church spent money on a limited number of works: evangelizing the lost, edifying the saved, and providing for needy saints. Many other works that seem good to us, like helping the world’s poor or providing a space for Christians to eat together, do not appear in the word as works of the church.
Many brethren find this analysis unsatisfying. On the one hand, they see all the good that the church might do, and on the other, they see the arguments against the church doing those things as legalistic quibbling. I respect those brethren, and I get where they’re coming from, but I think there’s something they’re missing. Once we depart from the first-century pattern, we start losing touch with the first-century church, not only in those departures, but because of the ripple effects of those departures. We can’t change things up according to our wisdom without losing something vital in the process. This morning, then, let’s consider authority and consequences..
The first problem that comes from adopting human institutions is that IT WILL LIMIT THE SPIRITUAL GROWTH OF BRETHREN. By way of illustration, let’s look at the words of the Israelites in 1 Samuel 8:19-20. The Israelites have a problem. They are idolatrous and wicked, so God keeps sending the nations around them to conquer them and oppress them. The Israelites could fix this problem by choosing to become righteous, but they don’t do that. Instead, they look to their neighbors for inspiration and demand a king. The king will fight their battles for them. He will protect them so that they will be safe without having to become righteous! What a great idea!
Of course, things do not work out the way the Israelites expect. Because they do not repent, God continues to punish them, and eventually, they are carried into exile along with their king. The worldly solution does not fix the spiritual problem.
There’s a very real sense in which, when we turn to institutions for solutions, we are doing the same thing. We see a spiritual problem: for instance, we think the Christians here don’t spend enough time showing hospitality to one another. Our hearts are not open to our brethren. Like the Israelites, we consult our neighbors for guidance, and we decide to build a fellowship hall like the churches around us. We think that will fix things.
Sadly, though, the fellowship hall isn’t solving the right problem, just like the king wasn’t solving the right problem. The king didn’t fix the hearts of the Israelites, and a fellowship hall won’t fix the hearts of Christians who don’t want to be hospitable. You’ve got an apparent solution, but it isn’t the solution that Christ wants to see in us, and indeed, it will discourage us from becoming more like him.
Second, bringing in those human institutions will HINDER THE WORK OF THE CHURCH. To summarize that work, let’s look at 1 Timothy 3:14-15. Here, Paul tells us that the church is supposed to be the pillar and support of the truth. That priority is reflected in the way this congregation spends its money. Pretty much, that spending is divided into three main categories: spending on the building, so we have a place to assemble, teach and learn; spending on local evangelists, Clay and me; and spending on foreign evangelists, men like Ronald Roark, who is baptizing people by the dozens off in Africa. All of it is connected to the truth.
Now, though, we introduce that fellowship hall. I doubt you could get one built for less than seven figures, so we’d have to take out a mortgage to do it and then service the debt. You’ve got to furnish the thing, you’ve got to buy food, and you’ve got to pay for the extra insurance. For some reason, church buildings with kitchens burn down more frequently than church buildings without!
All that takes money, and now you have to make your budget balance. In practice, let me tell you how it’s going to go. All the money for building upkeep will continue to be spent. The local evangelists will continue to be supported. However, men like Ronald Roark are going to get letters from us telling them that we can’t afford to support them anymore. Maybe souls in Africa will continue to be saved, but we won’t have anything to do with it. Is that the bargain that we want to strike, brethren—more convenience for us at the cost of denying others the opportunity to hear the gospel?
In theory, I suppose we could increase our contributions so that we can afford both Ronald Roark and the fellowship hall, but if we could give that much, why aren’t we giving it now? The elders turn aside men every month who are asking us to support them. If we had a larger contribution, we could do that. However we wriggle, we can’t escape the conclusion that a fellowship hall means less support of foreign evangelism. I don’t think that’s something any of us want to accept.
Finally, human institutions tend to MAKE THE CHURCH ABOUT MONEY. Let’s look at the Biblical pattern here in 1 Corinthians 16:1-2. Have you ever noticed, brethren, how the giving of the church is adequate to sustain the work of the church? As long as a congregation limits itself to the Biblical pattern, unless something has gone badly wrong, the church will be able to support itself.
However, as we observed above, all the human institutions that we might come up with, from fellowship halls to church colleges, come with a price tag. The more you have, the pricier it gets, and the less able you are to support them on the freewill offerings of the saints. It’s like putting a Prius engine in a semi body. There’s just not enough power to get the job done.
That’s why churches start departing from the pattern on giving too. I guarantee you that every church that preaches tithing does it because they have human institutions to support. The same holds true for bake sales, yard sales, and bingo nights. Those churches start grasping for income because they have to.
Let me tell you about where all that ends up. Back when I was a starving young preacher trainee, Lauren did temp admin work so we could have things like health insurance. During that time, she spent a couple of months working for the Diocese of Beaumont. While there, she learned that the only thing, literally the only thing, you have to do to remain a Catholic in good standing is to fill out your yearly pledge card and send it in. You don’t ever have to show up. Give them money, and they’re good with you.
That sounds pretty bad, doesn’t it? Well, guess how the Catholic Church ended up there? It’s because of all the institutions they have to support. We might argue, I suppose, about how far we could safely travel down that road. For myself, I’d rather not even start down it.
Summaries, Job 37-41
Monday, October 28, 2019Job 37 is the conclusion of Elihu’s speech. If you’ll recall, Elihu is the whippersnapper who was so provoked by the ignorance of Job and his three friends that he had to say something. He begins here by inviting Job to consider the majesty of God as revealed by thunderstorms. He creates lightning, thunder, snow, rain, cold, and ice. The storm goes wherever He wants it to. He asks Job whether Job is God’s equal in understanding and power. Does he know how God makes thunderstorms? Can he himself make a drought? God is incomprehensible, so wise men learn to fear Him.
Job 38 is the beginning of God’s discourse. Unsurprisingly, He gets the last word in the book! He opens by inviting Job to prove his fitness to question Him. He asks Job if he was around when God created the earth, or restrained the seas, or separated day from night. Has Job traveled in the depths of the ocean, followed light to its source, or seen how various forms of precipitation are created? Can Job guide the stars, control the weather, or provide for the animals of the world?
Job 39 continues in similar vein. Does Job understand the lives of the mountain goats? Does he know everything about wild donkeys? Can he tame wild oxen? Does he understand God’s purpose in the folly of the ostrich? Does he strengthen the horse? Does he guide the flight of the hawk?
Job 40 contains God’s summation. He invites Job to accuse Him if Job can understand all of those things. Not surprisingly, Job declines the invitation, acknowledging that he isn’t fit to question God. Nonetheless, God continues to point out Job’s limitations. He asks if Job is able to rule mankind as God does. He describes Behemoth (some large beast whose identity we can speculate about but not determine) and asks if Job can control him.
Job 41 continues God’s exploration of Job’s deficiencies. The entire chapter concerns Leviathan, another unidentified creature. God asks Job if he (or any man) is able to tame Leviathan, and if he isn’t, then how can he presume to question God? The rest of the chapter describes Leviathan’s attributes in poetic terms: his armor, his fiery breath, his strength, his invulnerability in battle, and his speed.
Holiness Versus Reconciliation
Friday, October 25, 2019Yesterday’s discussion about family withdrawal was notable both for its length and its civility. It certainly made me think a lot about what I had written, and eventually I realized that the back-and-forth was about one underlying theme: the tension between holiness and reconciliation. In our dealings with those who have fallen from grace, should we be more concerned about restoring them or protecting ourselves from temptation?
If we wanted to, we could create a long list of Scriptures arguing both sides of the point. Paul’s incredulous question in 1 Corinthians 5:6, “Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?”, appeals to the Corinthians to consider their own holiness. On the other side, Jesus’ declaration in Luke 5:32, “I have not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance,” certainly affirms His desire to reconcile.
What are we to make of this? Is Jesus’ example not one we are to follow? Is Paul instructing the Corinthians to be un-Jesus-like (not that they needed much help with that)?
I think the answer has to do with the spiritual condition of both Jesus and the Corinthians. In our interactions with anybody, our first concern has to be our own holiness. Worldly people are dangerous; lapsed Christians are even more dangerous. They are on a downward spiritual trajectory, they have a pre-existing relationship with us, and if their sin is not identified, they potentially can corrupt an entire church.
In our dealings with such people, we shouldn’t try to pull them out of the water if they are going to pull us out of the boat instead. This, of course, was the Corinthians’ problem. Instead of condemning sin, they were celebrating it! As a result, Paul counsels them to protect what little holiness they have left by cutting off contact with the sinner.
Jesus’ conduct was very different because His spiritual condition was very different. Rather than shunning covenant-breaking Jews, He sought out the worst covenant-breakers he could. He ate and drank with prostitutes and tax collectors.
However, this doesn’t reflect foolishness on the part of our Lord. It reflects righteousness and love. He knew that those wicked people wouldn’t drag Him down. Instead, He would lift them up. Because His holiness was secure, He could afford to seek reconciliation.
As we make decisions about how we should approach erring brethren, especially erring family members, we must ask ourselves whether our spiritual condition is closer to Corinth or to Christ. This is not an easy question! It is often true that those who are closest to the fallen-away are on spiritually shaky ground themselves. If we lie to ourselves about our own strength and minimize the danger, they will drag us down too. Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall, indeed!
On the other hand, it may be that we have the spiritual maturity we need to follow the example of Jesus. Again, never should we reach this conclusion lightly! Otherwise, like Peter, we may be out of the boat before we figure out we don’t have what it takes.
However, if our faith is strong enough, we may have opportunity to engage in that most praiseworthy of Biblical pursuits: turning back the sinner from the error of his way. Maybe cutting off all social interaction is the best way to accomplish this (and if our holiness is not what it should be, it’s the only tool we have); maybe continued contact and loving admonition is. I’m not here to judge anybody else’s judgment calls. I am certain, though, that we must keep the goal in mind and seek it as best we know how.
Truly, blessed are the peacemakers, but so too are those who suffer loss while they themselves are saved. Let us seek the first, if possible, but let us never forget the second, always bearing in mind the wisdom of Galatians 6:1: “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.”
Is Family Withdrawal a Biblical Practice?
Thursday, October 24, 2019Over the past several years, I’ve become aware of a practice among brethren that I’ll call, for lack of a better term, family withdrawal. Here’s how it goes: a child of Christian parents falls away, usually in some dramatic fashion. In response, their family, particularly their parents, “withdraws” from them. They won’t eat with them. The erring Christian is no longer welcome at family gatherings. Sometimes, they won’t even talk to them.
This is certainly a severe sanction. As a young man, I would have been devastated if my parents had chosen to shun me like that. However, I do not believe that it is Biblically required, and I am not at all certain that it is even wise.
First, it’s worth noting that all of the passages in the New Testament that concern generic withdrawal, Matthew 18:15-20, 1 Corinthians 5:1-13, and 2 Thessalonians 3:6-15, are addressed to churches. These are texts about how communities of believers are to censure unruly members.
There is no corresponding command given to individuals (I believe that 1 Timothy 6:5b in the KJV is a later addition and does not belong in the text). Just as it is error to presume that anything an individual can do, the church can do, it’s equally erroneous to presume that all individual Christians are granted the powers of the church, and church discipline needs to be left in the hands of the church.
Even in cases where the church does withdraw from an individual, that decision will have different effects on the Christian family members of that individual than it will on anyone else. For instance, the woman of God whose husband is withdrawn from is still responsible for honoring 1 Corinthians 7:1-5, which calls her to the most intimate relationship of all. Indeed, if we read the text strictly, 1 Peter 3:1-6 appears to be addressed specifically to women with out-of-duty husbands. She is to attempt to win him back not by showing disapproval, but by showing love.
It’s appropriate to view other family relationships through a similar lens. Most Christian fathers understand Ephesians 6:4 to be primarily about young children, but secondarily to be about adult children. Certainly, my father continued to instruct me as long as he lived! Is family withdrawal more likely to be recognized as discipline and instruction, or as a provocation to anger?
We need also to consider 2 Thessalonians 3:15. Whatever actions we take as the result of a withdrawal, they need to communicate brotherly love and admonition rather than enmity. This is a particularly powerful instruction in a family context. Natural affection (the absence of which Paul condemns in Romans 1:31) calls families to associate with one another. If I stopped inviting my siblings to my house for the holidays, all who heard of it, even in the world, would assume that we had become enemies.
Of course, in the final analysis, all of us can associate with whomever we please and shun whomever we please. If someone believes that cutting off social interaction is the wisest way to deal with a child who isn’t faithful to the Lord, they can do that. However, that’s far from the only godly way to proceed, and I suspect that it is rarely the best.
Certainly, things cannot continue as they were between any Christian and a family member who turns their back on God, but there’s a lot of distance between that and cutting off most/all contact. In my experience, parents are most successful when they negotiate a middle way between those two extremes. Continued interaction combined with godly admonition seems to be the combination most likely to win an erring child back. Ostracism, on the other hand, rarely convinces anyone.
Acappella Singing and Church Size
Wednesday, October 23, 2019A couple of days ago, I encountered a video of a saxophonist performing a. . . memorable rendition of the hymn “Give Thanks with a Grateful Heart”. At least, that’s what I think he’s playing. I reposted the video with the comment, “The real reason why the Lord only commanded us to sing was to save us from bad church bands. Not totally sure I'm joking.”
In all seriousness, I think there may be some truth to that. I’m not sure that the performer-audience model of worship works well anywhere, but I think it has to work particularly badly in average and smaller-than-average churches.
Across all denominations, the average church size is about 80 in attendance on Sunday morning. If you want to put together a competent church band from the talent base of those 80 attendees, how successful are you going to be? (Note, by the way, that churches of Christ are not a good gauge here. Because of the practice of congregational singing, brethren have much more musical interest and ability than the norm.) I’d guess you’d have a dude who used to play guitar in jazz band in high school, a woman of a certain age who gives piano lessons sometimes, and a girl in her late teens or early twenties who thinks she can sing.
They could make music together, kind of. You wouldn’t necessarily want to be in the same room with it. If, perchance, they turned out to be pretty good, it wouldn’t be long before a larger congregation snapped them up.
I’m not an expert, though I’ve watched some recordings online. I would guess, however, that the attendee of the average church is subjected to bad music on a weekly basis. The spotlight is not kind to people with marginal musical talent.
For churches of that size or smaller, congregational singing is simply going to work better. Once you get people who are willing to sing (which is an American obstacle not generally present elsewhere), an 80-member congregation will be able to do so in an appealing way, even if the singers only have modest musical gifts. The massed voices mask the flaws of any one voice (which, come to think of it, is a lovely metaphor for a church generally). I’ve worshiped with lots of churches all across the country, but I can’t think of a single one where the singing discouraged me.
This is true not only for the average church, but even for the small one. When I still lived in Illinois, I would preach once a month for the church up the road. I believe the congregation has grown since, but back when I visited on Sunday evening, attendance would be in the teens.
Trying to get a band together from those brethren would have been a disaster, but you know what? They could still make congregational singing work. I didn’t dread singing with them. I enjoyed it.
I think this illustrates the wisdom of God’s commandment to sing. Acappella congregational singing scales pretty well. Maybe it doesn’t compare to a Hillsong extravaganza, but singing “Our God, He Is Alive” with 1100 people has some power to it.
However, it’s most important not for larger churches, but for smaller churches. Even in the absence of standout musical talents (which usually aren’t going to be present in smaller congregations), congregational singing works. It works here, it works in Africa (again, haven’t been, but have seen the YouTube videos), and I’d imagine it worked 2000 years ago. Like everything about God’s plan for the church, it is suited to all places and times.
If you find yourself taking that for granted, go back and listen to the video at the top until you don’t.